• unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de
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    10 days ago

    Making extensive use of food delivery services is a trait i unapologetically use to filter people out of my life. (Unless they have medical reasons…)

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      10 days ago

      Why? I know several young families that just don’t have the time or a car to get groceries for the whole week, delivery services help them a lot

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        10 days ago

        Also elderly people. Me or other family buy groceries for an aunt, she has Amazon for emergencies.

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        How can you not have time to buy groceries? It’s not that big of a process.

        I understand not having a car though. Some places are not very walkable.

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          It’s not so much that you literally have no time but spending the extra money is a way to get the time you would otherwise spend on groceries to do other things like spend actual time with the kids before they sleep and walk the dog before it’s dark.

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            If you don’t have an hour to buy food a couple times a week, there’s something supremely fucked up about your priorities.

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              It usually has nothing to do with priorities, and everything to do with the crushing weight of capitalism giving you no time for leisure or recreation otherwise. Have kids and two jobs? Good luck spending much time with them.

              I don’t personally use grocery delivery services but I can see their appeal and use.

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                I do have kids and two jobs. I’m not sure what your point is. Half the time I use grocery store runs as way to talk to my kids in an environment where they’re not distracted by technology.

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                  Your experience isn’t the same as everyone else’s, that’s my point. Just because you like to use a chunk of your free time to shop doesn’t mean everyone else does. Many in your situation would prefer to use that time at home with their kids (where you can also avoid technology after ordering if you desire, btw)

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                    Right, what I’m pushing back against are the people in this thread who are implying it’s impossible to find time to both buy food and sleep, not people like you who are saying “I’d rather trade my money to buy additional time for leisure”, which is perfectly reasonable.

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              Work two jobs? Fuck you. Want rest? Fuck you. Want healthy food? Fuck you. Taking care of someone? Fuck you. Need sleep? Fuck you.

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                My days pretty much consist entirely of work, chores, gym, spending time with my kid, and sleeping. If not for the flexibility I get from work, I don’t think I’d ever be able to do groceries.

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          They’re on that fuckin grindset, workin eight 16 hour days a week lmao they don’t have time to step on a bus or walk down the street

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      10 days ago

      I guess I don’t really understand the purpose, here… You don’t like having rich friends?

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          Able to afford to throw hundreds of dollars per month towards just the convenience of having food delivered.

          Important to note that this doesn’t account for the price of the food itself, or the fact that the prices are inflated on top of eating out, just the delivery fees and tips.

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            You do realize that the people you should be angry at make hundreds to thousands of times more than a person who can afford delivery apps makes, right? You have been fooled into hating your own class.

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              I think the average American is making just about enough to get by, and probably would have a hard time, though not an impossible one, affording an extra ~$2k a year. (I can’t find a solid figure for the average household living wage in the US, but from what I’ve seen it’s pretty close to the average household income)

              It is a bit weird to define above average wage as rich though. But there is really no definitive class border so I think it’s slightly useless to argue about. You can also define above average as rich while still directing your hate towards the .1%.

              Also I don’t really detect any hate there?

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              I’m not reading any anger in their message. Seems like a pretty innocent joke.

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        why would people like having rich friends? it’s not like they’re likely to share their wealth, or they probably wouldn’t be rich…

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          It sounds like you need better friends, regardless of their financial status 🤷‍♂️