• boogetyboo@aussie.zone
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    1 year ago

    To you. Not everything is for the male gaze. I wouldn’t do it myself, and I don’t think it’s attractive on most women. But people aren’t walking around trying to please me. Or you.

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      1 year ago

      Injecting cologne into ones lips inflating them to several times their natural size is objectively ugly.

      There are aspects that I find attractive on people that general societal consensus determines to be ugly. I understand this and can admit that what I like is a fetish and goes against societal norms.

      It’s ok to like human lips bursting at the seams, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t ugly.

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        1 year ago

        Why people get these treatments is complicated. Some might to attract men, but others might to “look like their competition,” or “at least I don’t have saggy, wrinkled lips.” It might not have anything to do with men at all, but a general body dysmorphic disorder for deeper mental issues. Or really bad advice from a plastic surgeon. Could be lots of things.