• barnaclebutt@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    I don’t know dude. Having a shirt that says I eat your mom’s pussy doesn’t seem like a great step-dad move.

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    3 days ago

    How about the would-be step dad’s that can’t because of the narcissistic psychopathic real father who gladly fucks up his kids for life just so he gets his way?

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        15 hours ago

        Well, “glad” to know I’m not the only one, then

        Is that really so pervasive?

        • potoooooooo ☑️@lemmy.world
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          I’m not an expert. I watched my ex make everything regarding our kids about herself. I dated a stepmom who had similar issues in her relationship with her ex. I’ve seen other family members deal with similar bullshit–using the kids as a way to exact revenge, fucking with schedules/call routines, just whatever petty bullshit can be used to get back at the other person. The parents who are big enough to actually put the kids first are about as common as good, well-balanced people are otherwise, in my experience. So, not very common, at all.

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    3 days ago

    Learn to cook and go for walks to lose that “dead at 50 from heart failure or sleep apnea”-body and we might have a decent fucking guy over here.

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        3 days ago

        Size? Obesity isn’t a size, it’s an illness that kills you. Do you walk up to cancer patients and go “never change, you’re beautiful the way you are, don’t let the doctors take away your naturally pale skin”?

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          3 days ago

          I don’t say anything about their health to cancer patients, I assume they can handle their own shit and will ask me if they want advice. Sad you can’t give fat people the same respect.

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            3 days ago

            To be fair, he isn’t fat, he’s morbidly obese (that means deadly overweight). It’s like a meth head, not his fault, but don’t say it’s nothing to bother about.

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              3 days ago

              It’s not fair, it’s irrelevant. Dude’s health has absolutely nothing to do with this post. How hard is it to mind your own fucking business?

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          4 days ago

          Imagine white knighting a stranger who makes comments about another stranger’s health, based on their appearance. Chances are, the image isn’t even OOP and he’ll never see it. So even if they had tried to rephrase whatever the fuck they said “in a nice way” it was never helpful XDD