• sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    9 hours ago

    Oh I’m not, but I appreciate your concern.

    See, as a person with CPTSD from the level and extent to which I have been traumatized by narcissists…

    I know how they operate, and I’ve basically just played this one, fed into their compulsive need to make everything about themselves, to always see themselves as a victim.

    I’ve here taken this uh, organic, emergent, unexpected turn of events, to turn this into an example that further showcases how narcissism actually works.

    Why do this?

    Unironically, to raise awareness.

    So, so many people who are abused by narcissists are of course also gaslit by them, and don’t realize that the way a narcissist acts, the things they tell you are normal…

    … they’re not normal.

    Here, here’s the song I use as my ‘Ode to Narcissists.’

    Listen to lyrics. (Skip to about 2 min if you’re not a fan of the non radio cut, the extended version)

    New Order - Blue Monday

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      8 hours ago

      Alright cool dude, just as someone who also has autism, and also had a narc parent, and who did the whole deep dive over months giving myself a practical degree on the topic, thought I throw a bit of support your way cause ya know hoy por ti, mañana por mí 😁

      • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        7 hours ago

        I did actually block that person, so I can’t reply to comments stemming from their comments without doing it more manually, not on my phone as I normally do, but uh, muchas gracias amigo, no hay mal que por bien no venga, y, sobre aviso no hay engaño.

        ( Lo siento para mi español torpe, hace mucho que no lo hablo. =P )