He / They

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Cake day: June 16th, 2023

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  • So if I’m I’m understanding the idea correctly, it would be something like (for me)

    • I use he/him for my friend group, who I expect to have a personal relationship with me
    • I use they/them (singular) in the workplace, where I am a peer but not really a personal acquaintance
    • I use they/it online, where who or what I am is unimportant to anyone but me (it’s my choice whether to divulge info about myself)

    I see the logic there, and I think it almost feels like treating all pronouns as neopronouns, where each pronoun set embodies a different aspect of your Self: my work self’s pronouns, my home self’s pronouns, etc etc.

    I think the biggest pushback you’ll see from this is that most people aren’t comfortable with using varying pronoun sets, and definitely not for ‘traditional’ pronouns.










  • I’ll use your method, and summarize what I believe your position to be:

    • You can do the right thing
    • You can do the wrong thing for the right reasons
    • You can do the wrong thing for the wrong reasons
    • We should not treat people who do the wrong thing for the right reasons as just as bad as those who do it for the wrong reasons
    • Because we cannot know the reasons that each individual holds internally, we should not condemn the entire group of wrongdoers

    END OF LIST (since the markdown lists don’t leave any space afterwards)

    I think I can see why this is leaving you with no definite threshold for labeling a group as inherently bad, and if I may offer a solution: you need to apply the concept of an Affirmative Defense.

    An affirmative defense is a legal concept that occurs when someone admits they have done something wrong, but argues that is was for the right reasons. It then shifts the burden of proof to them, to prove that their reasons made their actions right/ valid (e.g. “yes I shot them, but it was self defense, and here’s the proof”).

    Barring that, it will always be impossible under your system to “call a Nazi a Nazi”, because there can always be some hypothetical justification in their minds that you can’t know. This plays into your point that you can not truthfully claim certainty for/against God. You cannot claim to know what is in someone’s mind.

    When it comes to real-world harms, though, that cannot be a valid defense. Otherwise, a person can do anything and simply say, “but you don’t know if I had a good reason for it”.

    When it comes to real-world harms, it is beholden on the wrongdoers to prove that their reasons made their actions acceptable. Anything else will leave you unable to condemn and confront evil.

    Putting Trump in power is a real-world harm. I have yet to hear a valid reason for doing it.



  • Professional sociologists, academics, and literal computer scientists who study AI: Hey we have a huge bias problem, and we haven’t really solved that yet. There will be huge ramifications if people blindly use AI

    Tech executives to the Public: “Wow, that’s really interesting. This is definitely something we need to work on and do better. You’ll be hearing more from us on this soon!” (But no way am I spending any money that should be going to my bonus on woke DEI shit)

    Tech execs to engineers: “…Ship it faster, and cheaper!”

    Engineer 1: “Hey, have we covered all our test bases on this?”

    Engineer 2: (looks around office) “Yep, I think we’ve tested with everyone here!”

    News report: “The product exhibits a clear anti-black bias, and leaked documents show that the product was not tested for it at all.”