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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • OP, this person knows what they’re talking about. One of the screening questions when I was diagnosed with ADHD had to do with clumsiness. My own parents used to call me, “An accident waiting for a place to happen.”

    I have slowly been able to improve my clumsiness a little bit, by exercising regularly with a trainer 5 days a week. One of those days is a balance-focused day and after 2.5 years I’m actually able to hold poses and (mostly) stay upright and steady. But it was SLOW going.

    The night before my 50th birthday, after I had been taking this class for 7 months, my husband and I were on a sunset cruise and his phone fell out of his pocket and over the side of the ship. I reached out with one hand and successfully caught it. THAT KIND OF THING NEVER HAPPENS TO ME!

    I celebrate that day every year as much as my birthday now. I managed to show off hand eye coordination before I was 50!

    Get screened… :)











  • Change is uncomfortable. There’s just no way around it. And there’s nothing wrong with you feeling that it’s kind of empty here and not what you’re used to.

    For me, it will be uncomfortable regardless. My preferred interface (RIF) is gone in 2 weeks so nothing at Reddit will feel comfortable either.

    So I’ve chosen to embrace the discomfort of Lemmy’s newness and comparative “emptiness” over the discomfort of using Reddit’s inferior app, for a couple of reasons: First, Reddit turned on us, not the other way around, and second, because this place is relatively new it’s not littered with bots and spammers and trolls. The energy here is just better for me.

    Even if all my favorite places and posters aren’t here yet, I’ll be here waiting for them when they arrive, and I’m the meantime, I’ll be doing my part to recreate what I used to love there, here.