Same here, these subs just aren’t the reason why I used to be on reddit or why I’m on lemmy now. I used to be low profile on reddit (and actually liked when people thought I was the allo-cis-het man they assumed me to be because it made my posts look so funny at times), but I’ve found lemmy to be less misogynistic so far and I’ve seen a fair amount of users with pronouns and fairly filled out profiles so I thought I’d give mine a try too. So far nobody has ever used them, but we’ll see.
This isn’t meant to bash OP’s cause, I’m sure someone finds these communities useful, it’s just not for me.
Bringing flowers to a grave once a year is not gonna distract regulars from the fact that you do zero to upkeep it during the other 364 days of the year.