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  • Yeah basically a kneecaped PC with horrible data policy. Example, if you have a game with a 3rd party save/account like a lot of games do, Sony owns it and you can not migrate it to other platforms. I bought my nephew a gaming PC and he lost about 2000hrs of progress in Apex because Sony owns his account.

    I’m not even a snob against consoles, just Sony sucks balls these days. I’d go with an Xbox but by then you’re basically buying a PC… Although you can prob get a cheaper price on an Xbox especially if you’re not building your own machine.










  • Jumping in, I also have a lot of BPD experience (example, a marriage of well over 10 years).

    This is very BPD-adjacent. I’m not saying OP’s gf has it per se, because there is no way we can know from here, but this is definitely on brand.

    If you read between the lines, the social conversation could written as this:

    “Heading home, I need support”

    “I’ll support”

    <Doesn’t support>

    <She feels abandoned, fight or flight kicks in and it turns her attachment-avoidant, results in silent treatment>

    <OP gives space, which is interpreted as further abandonment>

    <OPGF can’t take it anymore, and asks questions that feel like they’re out of left field because in fight-or-flight kicks in, clear thought is nearly impossible>

    <OP finally gives reassurance that he didn’t abandon her>

    <Normalcy continues>

    RyanLiu@lemmy.world read through this comment chain, therapy is the answer here.