Ah really?! I can smell it from here!
Ah really?! I can smell it from here!
I’m sorry to hear that, that’s really hard. Accept an internet hug from us friendly strangers on Lemmy!
If you’re not too averse to Christian stuff, I highly and personally recommend https://www.themarriagecourse.org/
It won’t probably help directly with coping with the MS, but can be really great for helping a lot of other areas of marriage, including your struggles with intimacy save romance. I recommend going in person if there’s one near enough.
Something like that can be great to do whether your marriage is on the rocks or going beautifully smoothly. - That might help your wife get over the sort of looming threat of “mental help for her”.
Anyway I’d second the advice of others that therapy can help. Don’t be afraid of finding you’re not suited for each other: Good marriage counselling is not just about “finding happiness with your own decision,” as another has said. Good marriage counselling helps you understand and rediscover each other and yourselves, giving you the best chance of (re)building relationship and new love with each other.
I can’t promise a cure-all solution, but I hope it can help.
What class were you teaching that in? Drugs Ed? Astrology? Economics?
I’m pretty sure that one’s been solidly proven in a long series of double blind tests, over a large, international, sample.
The problem is the result was also in company interest so many people think, without reading the papers themselves, that the money swayed the research and it can’t be trusted - despite multiple peer review and publication in most respected journals.
The real problem is the illegal ferret cribbage rings, whose benefactors seed 4chan and other sites rumours of the illegitimacy of the ferret cribbage research.
But you shouldn’t trust me, a stranger on the internet, on these matters. Who knows - I could be a shill for Big Weasel!
It’s not about money - I get them free from the local weekly charity giveaways - it’s about the environment. Did you know that PlayStations contain more plastic than half a toothbrush? And manufacturing ten of them uses more energy than five perforated toilet rolls?
Every time you throw away a PS5, another penguin dies.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=63NNuG-6-hQ
(My internet is rubbish right now so I hope this is the right one!)
If you’re ‘triggered’ by being called a fatty, stop being fat.
Now that’s a bad take.
We shouldn’t mock people for things they struggle with, even if we think they could just stop.
Nigger is a diminutive (or at least derivative) of negro, is it not?
I still have trouble referring to a person as ‘black’. It feels like a slur, or at least an inappropriate racial caricature (they’re not really black!) and it still surprises me that it’s become the acceptable and inoffensive term.
The n word almost seemed more mild, being about the same thing (an inappropriate way to describe race from skin colour), but linguistically removed (I’m not a native Latin speaker*) so I can feel it’s just a word, no need to be intrinsically good or bad.
But neither is your skin colour expressed in Latin. It becomes a slur based on how and when it’s used.
I agree with feeling ‘obese’ is a neutral, objective term for the physical/medical fact. But then, coming from a non-Anerican context, I used to have no sense of the N word being so offensive, any more than any other random insulting (or even affectionate!) term.
In the wrong context, ‘obese’ can certainly be hurtful and inappropriate. I can imagine, for some people, it’s a trigger word of years of pain and mockery.
It’s not my fault. Imperial Skyrim colonized my comment and won’t give it back.
In the end, we’re all subjects of the Fourth Reich.
I’m sure there’s a famous song about it…
"They see me Roman’
“They hatin’”
Probiotics belong to anti-vaxxers
New South Wales belongs to Wales
Skyrim belongs to the Nords
Good to know. I’ll put it in for a few minutes once it’s out the dishwasher. The dishwasher never quite fully dries my PS5, I usually have to put it in the tumble dryer afterwards with the silverware.
Is it safe to dry it out in the microwave?
Even better! More reason not to throw it away in this environmentally conscious age.
LPT: instead of throwing your playstation away after each game, try turning it off and on again to choose a new game.
Step one: email must be much easier, I’ll just make an email server instead.
Step two: screw this, I’m writing letters and posting them.
Sally forth!