Ah okay that makes sense thank you

Im here bc the app I used finally broke after the api changes years ago.

I like it but I do not understand the whole instance thing

To answer the question in the title id say

“What issues led to the break up and has that changed. If yes then go for it, if not then no”

After reading the post I’d say

Don’t wait for him. Try and move on. If he wants to get back together later consider it then.

Honestly I’ve had people say that to me as a way to let me down easy rather than actually mean it. Waiting was a mistake.

And I’m not saying he doesn’t mean it, maybe he does. But you’ll love again. You’re young. Grieve the relationship and move on. Judge later if he’s worth getting back together if that happens.

That’s the best advice i can give.