Are you Decoy Bender or just Bender?

Also a Reddit refuge. Just deleted a 6 year old account and all its content. It was a bit bittersweet but alas, it was time to move on with all that’s happened. Also applied to Beehaw and Lemmy.ml but can imagine it might be a bit swamped as didn’t hear back, so here I am. Glad to be here.