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No they’re Chinese now
get money
…and give it to me
No they’re Chinese now
thank you for sharing this. she was a very powerful presence. great rendition
i wasnt really familiar with her, but my wife likes her a lot.
just reading about all she did makes me sad I am so late to her music and story. def lost a true artist.
Rest in Power
Tiocfaidh ár lá
ya thats my problem too. at least an 1.5 hr drive one way to get to “shops” that are not ace hardware or safeway. i live in a town of about 2k up a steep mountain pass. i would love to ditch amazon but its really really hard to
oh i thought cuz you were mad about their unlimited breaks that was a factor for you
sounds like the amount of breaks for them dont matter then, its just that they’re stinky. which is fair. but you can get the breaks just the same if you wanted. maybe getting out for some fresh air would be good for you
what did i miss?
take a break when the smokers do. just go outside. who says you dont smoke?
go outside for a break then. who says youre not a smoker?
bro its brutal in these streets
that sucks
i think in some ways the zuck, while lacking of morals, is a true believer of, like, living on the web
its insane the amount of money and time has been dumped into the meta verse. i think he would do more if he could justify it
its convenience
reddit has become too easy so people dont care i guess
i dunno man, its wild to me
its the little heart at the top of at least lemmy.world
dude i feel that. its just lame and hard to grip with
its like i wish almost that i didnt care
whats really funny/sad to me is how mods get no real respect right now or maybe ever
like are some mods lame, sure, but its a super thankless job that i dont think gets enough cred and thats the part that i think has disappointed me the most. mods are super needed online, and its a shame some people cannot see that
well i still dont see disrespect or invalidation of they way you feel, unless defederation makes you question what is real around you, which i guess i assumed you didnt feel “crazy or insane” due to people disagreeing with you
and did you even read that thread? this is what you replied to that i saw
right? it wasn’t anywhere near a big deal or an insult to other instances it’s “we don’t have the resources to handle any possible bad actors from big instances with loose >registration requirements, so we’re defederating from them until we feel that we can handle it”
the correct response to this is “oh, okay; hope they figure it out such that they can federate with us again in the future”; people are blowing this out of proportion
how was that gaslighting or disrespectful to the way you felt about it. where am i being disrespectful, outside of disagreeing with you?
Edit: furthermore aren’t you doin the same thing
a reply of yours further down
I don’t believe you to be honest. I haven’t seen any hostility towards beehaw admins, or any toxicity whatsoever on the fediverse at all, whether lemmy.world or otherwise. You claim that the only thing you see is people being extremely hostile. So where are they?
are you not, by your definition gaslighting them?
quote me
i never said that at all. i have done nothing but respect you and your feelings about this matter, while giving you my quite reasonable take
i know we dont have to agree, thats why were not in the walled garden right? i welcome opinions that are different than mine, but you also have to respect what im saying right?
which it certainly doesnt feel like your giving me any benefit of doubt or anything. just assume im just some jerk
how am i being invalidating and disrespectful?
you are upset, thats ok! i dont think thats invalidating. you get to feel however you want, it is annoying that day 2 of my being here there is already some drama
i just dont agree thats its something to be that upset about or to the severity of the problem
its not blackmail, its not gaslighting, nor emotional manipulation
i just dont agree with the opinions you have stated
you are allowed!
but i dont agree with you
you see the difference right?
ive been in the same threads and I have seen none of what you’re talking about, even looked through your history
mostly it seems to be people trying to reasonably explain thats the game we’re playing. they get to do that, and they will not be the only one. Federation and all this is a fairly new thing, there will be pains like this going forward.
in addition, they have not made it permanent. it was about their carefully crafted community. is that lame? maybe, but thats the point of a decentralized platform. Their admins get ultimate control, lemmy.world gets the same freedom
and further more, the whole reason this spat started was your claim of gaslighting happening to you because of some commenters disagreeing with your opinions. which that doesnt fit the definition of the very serious and very damaging technique
why are you so upset in general? have people said you couldnt be upset about it? or were people trying to explain something about a pretty new piece of software? i
ive looked through your history and its very aggravated.
you do know that i cannot deny you your feelings, no matter how hard i might try? im just a UN somewhere in the world, your feelings are real and your own
you can keep using gaslighting incorrectly too, i aint the word police, but you are using the word objectively incorrectly. which im a sucker for letting people know
but maybe you should think about how your presenting yourself. believe what you want about whatever dude, but you do post here publicly, which implies your willing to have discussion about your opinions
lol maybe this is why beehaw peaced out
oat milk is the jammy out of all the alt milks imo