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  • MrSqueezles@lemm.eetoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldTrue Story
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    1 year ago

    I believe the post is specifically about long eyelashes, fake eyelashes.

    That said, my wife has worn makeup twice in 18 years. I love her for being herself, but I complimented her on how nice she looked those two times her sister did her makeup because I’m not a complete jerk and have some idea of how to be kind when someone has spent an hour trying to look nice. I also attempted to make it clear that I preferred her without makeup, maybe something along the lines of, “I love how naturally beautiful you are.”

    Just because some women consider men to be ignorant doesn’t mean we are.



  • As someone who maintained an API, 80% to 90% of my time was discovering that hackers were attempting an exploit, blocking it, adding monitoring, building abuse prevention. After we shut our API off, we could turn services back on, especially free services that we only took away because hackers.

    Not to mention the support volume. More than half of our support calls were, “Why did you suspend my account? I’m a poor old grandpa. I want to appeal.” Okay, yep we looked into activity and you sent 50000 requests in less than a minute and that’s all you ever did with this account. Did you know hackers lie and will spend hours getting tech support? You go to school to be an engineer to build cool stuff and instead field bullshit support requests all day from people trying to destroy the thing you want to build so they can maybe make thirty bucks and cost you tens of thousands. It sucked the life out of me and turned me eternally cynical.



  • I’ve pirated content and don’t have any issues with it. What has worn me out

    • Sites being pirated don’t give a shit that pirates aren’t going to use them anymore. That’s literally why they blocked them.
    • Want to consume content without paying? Do it and maybe share with others how you did it, but don’t make the millionth post bragging about how you’re sticking it to the man. Go rob a Tiffany’s and brag about sticking it to that company. And when they install new security measures, post about how unfair it is and you’ll never take stuff from them again. Or don’t. Really. Don’t. I want to see that post about as much as the post about what you had for breakfast this morning.


  • I heard an anonymous interview with someone who was sickened by their own attraction to children. Hearing that person speak changed my perspective. This person had already decided never to marry or have kids and chose a career to that same end, low likelihood that kids would be around. Clearly, since the alternative was giving up on love and family forever, the attraction wasn’t a choice. Child porn that wasn’t made with children, comics I guess, was used to fantasize to prevent carrying through on those desires in real life.

    I don’t get it, why anyone would be attracted to kids. It’s gross and hurtful and stupid. If people suffering from this problem have an outlet, though, maybe fewer kids will be hurt.


  • As someone who has worked on free Internet services, it used to be easier to make money from ads. A video ad view was worth nearly a dollar US. Audio ads were maybe 7 or 8 cents a listen. Now, a video ad view makes a few cents and audio ads are worthless. They likely did the math about how many audio ads they’d have to play on the phone in your pocket to break even and decided you’d hate it more than they would. Since content owners get just over half of what YouTube makes, they’d probably be pissed about seeing the drop in income too.

    Feel free to hate YT. This was an economic decision at around the time when ad revenue had just fallen off of a cliff.


  • MrSqueezles@lemm.eetodeleted@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    1 year ago

    Thank you. I was going off of the image of the drink, which is an iced coffee.

    Still, that’s 9 donuts, not 17 and we’re just looking at sugar when what matters is carbohydrates, which are 190 vs 41 so 4 and a half donuts, still a lot, but not an insane stack of deep fried dough. And guys, nobody’s ordering essentially a coffee flavored milkshake like, “Hoo baby can’t wait to get my health on today.”