I’d like to report mod activity that’s not following sitewide rules on your server and instead bans people because they feel it’s not worth their time. I would like for the mod to be overlooked.

The sitewide rule #1 says I can expect to participate without harassment and feel welcome. If I call a mod to look over a user breaking this rule, I should expect them to intervene, right?

So I don’t understand why @Apytele@sh.itjust.works is deleting all my comments and banning me instead of the person being aggressive towards me because “both sides of the argument are nonsense” without even bothering with the actual concern. I didn’t call them over to look at anyone’s argument, I specifically stated in my report that the other person was being extremely disrespectful.

So now I’m banned:

Banned Lemminary from the community Curated Tumblr@sh.itjust.works reason: troll expires: in 30 days

Their excuse? I’m a troll, apparently. I invite anyone to check the messages to see if that’s true or if I’m merely sharing my opinion.

I don’t care about the ban–keep it that way. But please let me know if something is being done about these mods who enjoy pushing people around. It’s infuriating that on top of being dog-piled on, berated & insulted in the thread all day (I got links), I also get treated this way by the people who have taken on the role of protecting users. If I hit the report button, I entrust the person in charge to keep a level head and do their job fairly.

Thank you for your time.

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    It’s a pretty tame thread all things considered. You wanna discuss this with them, they don’t, take the hint.

    They edited the comment, that’s not what it said originally, which is the only reason I reported and they added the stuff about not wanting to interact later to avoid a penalty. I would never report the latter. And why would someone who doesn’t want to interact keep being nasty until they realize they had nothing? All they had to say was berate me on what I think and not respecting MY wishes to not elaborate further, which is only two messages above that one. I was very clear on how fed up I was. Why is that not respected if I’m expected to respect someone else? Instaed they berated me further. But please, tell me where I was “horrifically rude and unnecessarily aggressive” when that person had been doing it to me first and out of nowhere. Nobody has bothered besides one person. You don’t look at that, you got your blinders on for when I had enough with the mod straight-up ignoring my request. Do you think that’s fair to me? Would YOU want to be treated that way by a mod? Not a trick question.

    Yes, we’ve noticed.

    Thank you for noticing! I wish you’d notice the way people have been treating me in that other thread and in this one. It’s pretty obvious that the only thing you care about is piling on even more. Go ahead, do it to your heart’s content as you do. You talk so much about human beings but I don’t see you empathizing. I also wish you’d notice that the reason for the ban had nothing to do with my participation but only my reaction at them being a twat without even bothering with it. If that had happened to you I bet you would also have been upset at being treated like dirt by mods on top of having to endure the pissy replies out of the blue. Notice that instead.

    You keep mentioning people attacking you over there and I didn’t see it.

    Yeah, figured you’d turn a blind eye to that too. Just selectively finding reasons to blame it all on me, barely glancing elsewhere. Like I said, you have yet to put yourself in my shoes and I know you won’t.

    Move. The. Fuck. On.

    I. Will. Not. And. I. Don’t. Have. To. You move the fuck on because all you got is being nasty too. Set the example of when someone replies and you’re told to bottle up after everything that happened.

    Just so we’re clear: I don’t wish to interact further. Respect that. Bottle it up, kid.

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      They edited the comment, that’s not what it said originally

      FYI, reports include the original comment text as it was when reported, which is what I’ve quoted.

      Just so we’re clear: I don’t wish to interact further. Respect that.

      Great, goodbye.