• rekabis@lemmy.ca
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    6 months ago

    Except… wide swaths of feminism still hate him for what he/she is. Because instead of being just a man, he/she is now a man refusing to adhere to the imposed rules of what women expect a man to be. So he/she is hated by them twice as virulently.

    It’s why the term TERF - trans-exclusionary radical feminism - exists. Scratch the thin veneer of most feminists hard enough, and this can be found underneath in some capacity.

    I really hope he/she has a strong support network in their friends and family members. They are going to need it.

    • Cris@lemmy.world
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      6 months ago

      He. Not he/she. He

      Also as someone who knows a huge number of feminists that are militantly anti-terf, it’s categorically untrue that strict, trans exclusionary interpretations of who counts as a woman are in any way an intrinsic aspect of feminism

      You’re right though, he will need a strong support system, and I also hope there are folks in his corner

      Hope you are well

    • jeffw@lemmy.worldOP
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      6 months ago

      You’re vastly overestimating the number of TERFs in the world. Assuming you accept their classification as feminists in the first place, I imagine it’s easily under 1% of those who identify as feminists. I have literally never met one irl

    • Rampsquatch@sh.itjust.works
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      6 months ago

      If you’re unsure of a person’s pronouns, then using 'they ’ is probably a better idea than ‘he/she’.